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OK, So here's to being transparent:
At this point, I felt PM wasn't necessary since his question is frequently asked, a topic would be better suited because: it means other people could answer his question should I am not momentarily around and more importantly, if anybody has same question they could find an answer immediate within by searching the forum itself as private messages are private and cannot be searched.
Still though, I went ahead gave the answer kindly.
Few days later, He decides to PM again and asking some real important questions however because I didn't want to see those questions remain abstained (prefer to disclose the answer public, so everyone gets this information unmodified and equally)
Next thing I know he's bashing me, claiming will not bother to post. This is truly sad day, and I hope you understand why it's really difficult being admin because as you are effectively always being "bribed" with that notion of "I will bring 20 good players", which is really nice for server if that's any true, but I don't bend philosophy and now I have an angry player, if I bend to his willing then I'm corrupt and I anger other players because I disclosed the information to him earlier(or isn't exactly same information I disclosed to everyone else).
Whew. What a day.
At this point, I felt PM wasn't necessary since his question is frequently asked, a topic would be better suited because: it means other people could answer his question should I am not momentarily around and more importantly, if anybody has same question they could find an answer immediate within by searching the forum itself as private messages are private and cannot be searched.
Still though, I went ahead gave the answer kindly.
Few days later, He decides to PM again and asking some real important questions however because I didn't want to see those questions remain abstained (prefer to disclose the answer public, so everyone gets this information unmodified and equally)
Next thing I know he's bashing me, claiming will not bother to post. This is truly sad day, and I hope you understand why it's really difficult being admin because as you are effectively always being "bribed" with that notion of "I will bring 20 good players", which is really nice for server if that's any true, but I don't bend philosophy and now I have an angry player, if I bend to his willing then I'm corrupt and I anger other players because I disclosed the information to him earlier(or isn't exactly same information I disclosed to everyone else).
Whew. What a day.

